Volkmar Sigusch Quotes

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• There will be other forms in addition to our classic marriage. One is already looming on the horizon: polyamory, or having more than one intimate partner.

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  Horizon, Classic, Intimate

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• You're married to a woman who has no objection to another woman joining the couple. Then she brings in her boyfriend. Suddenly you realize - my God! - you can love more than one person. In fact, you can love several people at the same time.

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  Couple, People, Joining

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• Sexual desire declines after four to seven years. That's been proven.

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  Years, Desire, Four

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• The social problem is that we haven't come up with any alternative models. Our culture hasn't developed an ars erotica. Think, for example, of conditions in India or in Japanese culture and of how the erotic has been cultivated there. They're not as clinical and rabbit-like as we are.

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  Thinking, Erotic, Alternatives

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• It's very important to approach pedophiles and pedosexuals and offer them therapy. It's been my experience that you can reach your objective with what I would call kind-hearted, informed and enlightened patients - in the sense that they don't lose their desire, but that they no longer have physical contact with children. That would be the goal.

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  Children, Goal, Important

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• The traits of our sexual culture are still speechlessness, loneliness, violence and not enough desire and love.

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  Loneliness, Desire, And Love

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• Most pornographic images are simply too repulsive.

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  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• Fantasies have to remain dirty. Cleanliness, scrupulousness and rationality are poison for eroticism.

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  Dirty, Poison, Fantasy

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• Key feature of sexual revolution is the large-scale publication and commercialization of details that were once secret. Sexuality has been trivialized. The interesting thing about this is that exaggerated portrayals apparently destroy desire more effectively than any repression.

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  Keys, Interesting, Secret

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• With an intelligent couple, it ought to be possible for the husband or wife to look for satisfaction outside the relationship - while always taking the partner into consideration, meaning acting openly but still discreetly.

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  Couple, Husband, Intelligent

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• The things that could be derived from the sexual sphere - happiness, endless fun and the end of capitalism - were grossly overestimated. The symbolic overglorification was downright unbearable.

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  Fun, Unbearable, Spheres

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• We are all potential murderers, and we are all potential rapists and abusers.

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  Murderer, Abusers

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• I will always be referred to as a theorist, but I was only a fellow traveller with a degree.

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  Degrees, Traveller, Fellows

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• Aura of the mysterious is a minor perversion that a couple shares. A fetish that one of the two partners finds arousing, or a particular sexual scenario. Fantasies have to remain dirty. Cleanliness, scrupulousness and rationality are poison for eroticism.

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  Couple, Dirty, Two

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• Sexual desire declines after four to seven years. That's been proven.Because it's the most compatible with our spiritual origins. Father, mother, small family - that's the way we've developed our souls, the way we've become, and the way we feel safe, protected and loved.

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  Spiritual, Mother, Father

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• Most young people seem to be behaving very intelligently: They look at things once in a while, but then they find it so idiotic and uncool that they just look away again. That is, provided they're not growing up in a family in which a drunk father is already watching pornos in the morning.

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  Morning, Growing Up, Father

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• When it comes to sexuality, people like to tell lies. It's only when it comes to money that they lie more.

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  Lying, People, Sexuality

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• Good sex can be anything, including dirty.

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  Sex, Dirty, Good Sex

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• There are many options in a marriage. If the couple has been together for a certain amount of time and has a certain amount of liberalism or life experience, it could be the kind of relationship in which one partner ventures into the occasional affair, which is then forgiven. This only happens every 13 years on average, but it obviously does occur.

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  Couple, Average, Years

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• Some 95 percent of all sexual contact still occurs in permanent relationships. That's an impressive number.

  Volkmar Sigusch

  Numbers, Impressive, Contact

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• The sexual revolution of the 1960s was mostly a movement of young people. I felt that the so-called "free relationships" were overrated.

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  People, Movement, Revolution

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• The sexual revolution produced cultural convulsions that were unparalleled in the 20th century.

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  Revolution, Century, 20th Century

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• Just go to an auto show, and you'll see all the signs of sexual arousal in the men: shiny eyes, tremors, sex flush. An acute example of the need for professional sex research.

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  Sex, Eye, Men

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• There are young men who want thrills but no longer value sex, so they do completely different things, including aggressive things.

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  Sex, Men, Different

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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• Sexuality is pushed back more and more and people try to replace what they've lost with other forms of excitement.

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  People, Trying, Excitement

  Source: www.spiegel.de

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