Peter Høeg Quotes

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• There is one way to understand another culture. Living it. Move into it, ask to be tolerated as a guest, learn the language. At some point understanding may come. It will always be wordless. The moment you grasp what is foreign, you will lose the urge to explain it. To explain a phenomenon is to distance yourself from it.

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  Distance, Moving, Understanding

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.222, Macmillan

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• I feel the same way about solitude as some people feel about the blessing of the church. It's the light of grace for me. I never close my door behind me without the awareness that I am carrying out an act of mercy toward myself.

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  Single, Loneliness, Blessing

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.13, Macmillan

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• The motive for our actions doesn't lie ahead of us. It's something behind us that we're trying to escape.

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  Lying, Trying, Our Actions

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• If you want to support others you have to stay upright yourself.

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  Support, Want, Ifs

  Peter Høeg (2013). “Borderliners: A Novel”, p.52, Macmillan

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• To want to understand is an attempt to recapture something we have lost.

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  Want, Lost

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.40, Macmillan

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• ..That's where we humans make a mistake. We don't see the utterly amazing when it comes to us disguised as the ordinary.

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  Mistake, Ordinary, Humans

  Peter Høeg (2015). “The Quiet Girl”, p.175, Random House

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• We all try to camouflage the monotony. But it takes a lot of energy. To insist on being special all the time. When we're so much like one another anyway. Our triumphs are the same. Our pain. Try for a moment to feel what relief there is in the ordinary.

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  Pain, Special, Trying

  "The Quiet Girl". Book by Peter Høeg, 2006.

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• The body's pain is so paper-thin and insignificant compared to that of the mind.

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  Depression, Pain, Mind

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.501, Macmillan

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• I've had the privilege of learning foreign languages. Instead of merely speaking a watered-down form of my mother tongue, like most people, I'm also helpless in two or three other languages.

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  Mother, Two, People

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.316, Macmillan

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• When you let your mind go blank,' he said, 'or when you stop talking for a long time, something happens. Time becomes different. It goes away. It doesn't come back until you start to say something.

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  Talking, Long, Mind

  Peter Høeg (2013). “Borderliners: A Novel”, p.35, Macmillan

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• I like him. I have a weakness for losers. Invalids, foreigners, the fat boy of the class, the ones nobody ever wants to dance with. My heart beats for them. Maybe because I've always known that in some way I will forever be one of them.

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  Heart, Boys, Class

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.55, Macmillan

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• When my mother didn't come back I realized that any moment could be the last. Nothing in life should simply be a passage from one place to another. Each walk should be taken as if it is the only thing you have left. You can demand something like this of yourself as an unattainable ideal. After that, you have to remind yourself about it every time you're sloppy about something. For me that means 250 times a day.

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  Mother, Taken, Mean

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• When you're young, you think that sex is the culmination of intimacy. Later you discover that it's barely the beginning.

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  Sex, Thinking, Intimacy

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.450, Macmillan

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• Traveling tends to magnify all human emotions.

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  Inspirational, Travel, Adventure

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.339, Macmillan

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• The fear for oneself, that one can do something about. Upon it one can turn the light of awareness. But when one is no longer worrying about oneself, then the fear comes for other people and, after that, for the world. There are no fearless people, only fearless moments.

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  Fear, Light, People

  Peter Høeg (2013). “Borderliners: A Novel”, p.21, Macmillan

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• Do you know what the mathematical expression is for longing? ... The negative numbers. The formalization of the feeling that you are missing something.

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  Expression, Numbers, Missing

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.131, Macmillan

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• The great systems that inform the world about the truth and life invariably claim to be absolutely truthful and well-balanced. In reality they are quaking bridges built out of yearning.

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  Reality, Bridges, Balance

  Peter Høeg (2013). “Tales of the Night”, p.309, Macmillan

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• The knives in my apartment are only sharp enough to open envelopes with. Cutting a slice of coarse bread is on the borderline of their ability. I don't need anything sharper. Otherwise, on bad days, it might easily occur to me that I could always go stand in the bathroom in front of the mirror and slit my throat. On such occasions it's nice to have the added security of needing to go downstairs and borrow a decent knife from a neighbor.

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  Nice, Suicidal, Bad Day

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• The problem with anger against God is that it's impossible to go higher in the system to complain.

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  Complaining, Impossible, Problem

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• Falling in love has been greatly overrated. Falling in love consists of 45 percent fear of not being accepted, 45 percent manic hope that this time the fear will be put to shame and a modest 10 percent frail awareness of the possibility of love. I don't fall in love any more. Just like I don't get the mumps.

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  Falling In Love, Shame, Awareness

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• It's these small differences in people's karma that determine if we get up or remain lying on the ground.

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  Karma, Lying, Differences

  Peter Høeg (2015). “The Quiet Girl”, p.59, Random House

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• Perhaps it's true that love is eternal. But it's appearance changes all the time.

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  Love Is, Appearance, Eternal

  Peter Høeg (2015). “The Quiet Girl”, p.285, Random House

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• We sat there and I knew that this was how it felt to be totally accepted. You sit close to another person and are understood, everything is understood and nothing is judged and you are indispensable.

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  Accepted, Sat, Indispensable

  Peter Høeg (2013). “Borderliners: A Novel”, p.156, Macmillan

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• I have sat in the dark and looked at them both, the child and the woman. And the feeling has become too much. It is not sorrow or joy; it is the weight and the pressure of having been brought into their lives, and of knowing that if one were ever to be separated from them, it would mean your obliteration.

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  Children, Mean, Dark

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• There's a widespread notion that children are open, that the truth about their inner selves just seeps out of them. That's all wrong. No one is more covert than a child, and no one has a greater need to be that way. It's a response to a world that's always using a can opener to open them up to see what's inside, wondering whether it ought to be replaced with a more useful sort of preserves.

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  Children, Self, Needs

  Peter Høeg (2010). “Smilla's Sense of Snow: A Novel”, p.58, Macmillan

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