• The way to find your own North Star is not to think or feel your way
    forward but to dissolve the thoughts and feeling that make you miserable.
    You don't have to learn your destiny--you already know it; you just have to unlearn the thoughts that blind you to what you know.

    Martha Beck (2009). “Steering by Starlight: The Science and Magic of Finding Your Destiny”, p.18, Rodale