Caretaking Quotes

• There is no neediness in desire ... there is no caretaking in desire. Caretaking is mightily loving, [but] it's a powerful anti-aphrodisiac.

  Esther Perel

  Motivation, Powerful, Inspiration

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• Caregiving requires the intention of love, caretaking requires the intention of fear. Not acting in anger when you are angry requires the intention of love.

  Gary Zukav

  Acting, Intention, Caregiving

  "Why Painful Things Happen to Good People" by Gary Zukav, www.huffingtonpost.com. January 18, 2013.

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• Live quietly in the moment and see the beauty of all before you. The future will take care of itself.

  Paramahansa Yogananda

  Life, Cherish Every Moment, Quiet Moments

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• Today I will practice healthy giving, understanding that caretaking and compulsive giving don't work. I choose what I want to give, to whom, when, and how much. It takes time to learn how to give in healthy ways. It takes time to learn to receive. Balance will come.

  Melody Beattie

  Practice, Giving, Understanding

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• Not only do our wives need support, but our children need our deep involvement in their lives. If this period [the early years] ofprimitive needs and primitive caretaking passes without us, it is lost forever. We can be involved in other ways, but never again on this profoundly intimate level.

  Augustus Napier

  Children, Years, Wife

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• The task is clear: to create a culture of caretaking in which no one and nowhere is thrown away, in which the inherent value of people and all life is foundational.

  Naomi Klein

  People, Tasks, Culture

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• Can we really expect adequate funding for programs to clean up our environment and care for people's basic needs as long as the socially essential work of caretaking and cleaning is relegated to women for little or no pay?

  Riane Eisler

  Long, People, Care

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• The caretaking has to be done. "Somebody's got to be the mommy." Individually, we underestimate this need, and as a society we make inadequate provision for it. Women take up the slack, making the need invisible as we step in to fill it.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Needs, Done, Steps

  Mary Catherine Bateson (1990). “Composing a Life”, Plume

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• We're vulnerable to repeating history, especially if we don't know what's driving us. For example, it may be a family tradition to marry someone with addiction problems, or who is an injured bird in need of caretaking. Or, you may be drawn to guys who remind you of your distant, unavailable father -- or your ill-tempered mother -- with the unconscious belief that you can take an old story, and through the power of your love, give it a new, happy ending.

  Harriet Lerner

  Mother, Father, Giving

  "The Top 10 Reasons Women Re-Marry The Wrong Guys" by Harriet Lerner, www.huffingtonpost.com. July 7, 2012.

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• Caring works. Caretaking doesn't. We can learn to walk the line between the two.

  Melody Beattie

  Caring, Two, Lines

  Melody Beattie (1990). “The Language of Letting Go”, p.67, Hazelden Publishing

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