Virginia Satir Quotes

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• I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you without invading, invite you without demanding, leave you without guilt, criticize you without blaming, and help you without insulting. If I can have the same from you, then we can truly meet and enrich each other.

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  Love You, Appreciate, Judging

  Virginia Satir (1976). “Making Contact”

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• We get together on the basis of our similarities; we grow on the basis of our differences.

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  Differences, Together, Bases

  Virginia Satir (1988). “The new peoplemaking”, Science & Behavior Books

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• Life is not what it's supposed to be. It's what it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.

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  Inspirational, Life, Break Up

  Biography/Personal Quotes, www.imdb.com.

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• I want you to get excited about who you are, what you are, what you have, and what can still be for you. I want to inspire you to see that you can go far beyond where you are right now.

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  Inspire, Want, Excited

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• There are five freedoms:
  The freedom to see and hear what is;
  The freedom to say what you feel and think;
  The freedom to feel what you actually feel;
  The freedom to ask for what you want;
  The freedom to take risks on your own behalf.

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  Freedom, Thinking, Risk

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• Communication is to relationships what breath is to life.

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  Communication, Breaths

  Virginia Satir (1976). “Making Contact”

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• Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible - the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family.

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  Motivational, Family, Appreciation

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• We must not allow other people's limited perceptions to define us.

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  Life, Being Yourself, Positive Thinking

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• We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth.

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  Love, Inspirational, Marriage

  "Magic Touch: Six Things You Can Do to Connect in a Disconnected World" by Carolyn Rosenblatt, www.forbes.com. January 18, 2011.

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• Your responses to the events of life are more important than the events themselves.

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  Important, Events, Response

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• I believe the greatest gift I can conceive of having from anyone is to be seen by them, heard by them, to be understood and touched by them.

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  Love, Believe, Heard

  Biography/Personal Quotes, www.imdb.com.

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• People prefer the certainty of misery to the misery of uncertainty

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  People, Misery, Certainty

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• It is now clear to me that the family is a microcosm of the world. To understand the world, we can study the family: issues such as power, intimacy, autonomy, trust, and communication skills are vital parts underlying how we live in the world. To change the world is to change the family.

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  Communication, Skills, Issues

  Virginia Satir (1988). “The new peoplemaking”, Science & Behavior Books

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• Every word, facial expression, gesture, or action on the part of a parent gives the child some message about self-worth. It is sad that so many parents don't realize what messages they are sending.

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  Children, Self Worth, Expression

  Virginia Satir (1988). “The new peoplemaking”, Science & Behavior Books

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• The Problem is never the problem! It is only a symptom of something much deeper.

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  Problem, Symptoms, Deeper

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• The message sent is not always the message received.

  Virginia Satir

  Messages

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• I regard (parenting) as the hardest, most complicated, anxiety-ridden, sweat-and-blood-producing job in the world. Succeeding requires the ultimate in patience, common sense, commitment, humor, tact, love, wisdom, awareness, and knowledge. At the same time, it holds the possibility for the most rewarding, joyous experience of a lifetime, namely, that of being successful guides to a new and unique human being.

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  Jobs, Commitment, Successful

  Virginia Satir (1988). “The new peoplemaking”, Science & Behavior Books

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• The symbol in Chinese for crisis is made up of two ideographs: one means danger, the other means opportunity. This symbol is a reminder that we can choose to turn a crisis into an opportunity or into a negative experience.

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  Mean, Opportunity, Negative Experiences

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• As a therapist, I am a companion. I try to help people tune into their own wisdom.

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  People, Trying, Tunes

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• It is O. K. for me to feel angry and to express it in responsible ways.

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  Way, Responsible, Feels

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• I give life to that which I notice. What I don't notice dies.

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  Giving, Dies

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• Parents teach in the toughest school in the world - The School for Making People. You are the board of education, the principal, the classroom teacher, and the janitor.

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  Teacher, School, People

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• I have talked about choosing rather than acting from compulsion. When you feel that you have to live according to someone else's direction or live so that you never disappoint or hurt anybody, then your life is a continual assessment of whether or not you please other people.

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  Hurt, Assessment, People

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• Problems are not the problem; coping is the problem.

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  Problem, Coping

  Steve Andreas, Virginia Satir (1991). “Virginia Satir, the patterns of her magic”, Science & Behavior Books

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• The greatest gift I can give is to see, hear, understand, and touch another person.

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  Giving, Persons, I Can

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