Anthony de Mello Quotes

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• Live your life as you see fit. That's not selfish. Selfish is to demand that others live their lives as you see fit.

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  Selfish, Live Your Life, Demand

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• If it is peace you want, seek to change yourself, not other people. It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to carpet the whole of the earth.

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  Spiritual, Feet, People

  Anthony De Mello (2012). “One Minute Wisdom”, p.38, Image

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• Nothing has changed but my attitude, therefore, everything has changed.

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  Attitude, My Attitude, Changed

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• I was neurotic for years. I was anxious and depressed and selfish. Everyone kept telling me to change. I resented them and I agreed with them, and I wanted to change, but simply couldn't, no matter how hard I tried. Then one day someone said to me, Don't change. I love you just as you are. Those words were music to my ears: Don't change, Don't change. Don't change . . . I love you as you are. I relaxed. I came alive. And suddenly I changed!

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  Change, Selfish, Love You

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• What you are aware of you are in control of; what you are not aware of is in control of you.

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  Spiritual, Enlightenment, Spirituality

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “Awareness: Conversations with the Masters”, p.71, Image

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• If you look carefully you will see that there is one thing and only one thing that causes unhappiness. The name of that thing is attachment. What is an attachment? An emotional state of clinging caused by the belief that without some particular thing or some person you cannot be happy.

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  Emotional, Attachment, Names

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• You see persons and things not as they are but as you are.

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  Persons

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “The Way to Love: Meditations for Life”, p.34, Image

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• A nice definition of an awakened person: a person who no longer marches to the drums of society, a person who dances to the tune of the music that springs up from within.

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  Inspirational, Courage, Spring

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “Awareness: Conversations with the Masters”, p.163, Image

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• Loneliness is not cured by human company. Loneliness is cured by contact with reality.

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  Loneliness, Learning, Knowledge

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “Awareness: Conversations with the Masters”, p.55, Image

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• When you fight something, you're tied to it forever. As long as you're fighting it, you’re giving it power.

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  Fighting, Long, Giving

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “Awareness: Conversations with the Masters”, p.15, Image

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• We do not have a fear of the unknown. What we fear is giving up the known.

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  Giving Up, Giving, Fear Of The Unknown

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• Spirituality means waking up. Most people, even though they don't know it, are asleep. They're born asleep, they live asleep, they marry in their sleep, they breed children in their sleep, they die in their sleep without ever waking up. They never understand the loveliness and the beauty of this thing that we call human existence.

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  Life, Children, Learning

  "Approaching God : How to Pray". Book by Steve Brown (p. 94), 1995.

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• You don't have to add anything in order to be happy; you've got to drop something.

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  Order, Add

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “Awareness: Conversations with the Masters”, p.78, Image

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• When the eye is unobstructed, the result is sight. When the ear is unobstructed, the result is hearing. When the mind is unobstructed the result is truth. When the heart is unobstructed, the result is joy and love.

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  Spiritual, Heart, Eye

  Anthony De Mello (2012). “Rediscovering Life: Awaken to Reality”, p.34, Image

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• "What is the secret of your serenity?" Said the master: "Wholehearted cooperation with the inevitable."

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  Spiritual, Serenity, Secret

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• "Why is everyone here so happy except me?" "Because they have learned to see goodness and beauty everywhere," said the Master. "Why don't I see goodness and beauty everywhere?" "Because you cannot see outside of you what you fail to see inside."

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  Spiritual, Beauty Everywhere, Failing

  Anthony De Mello (2012). “One Minute Wisdom”, p.55, Image

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• All is well, all is well. Though everything is a mess, all is well.

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  Wells, Mess

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “Awareness: Conversations with the Masters”, p.5, Image

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• ‎"I have no fear of losing u, for you aren't an object of my property, or anyone else's. I love you as you are, without attachment, without fears, without conditions, without egoism, trying not to absorb you. I love you freely because I love your freedom, as well as mine.

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  Love You, Attachment, Trying

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• There is only one cause of unhappiness: the false beliefs you have in your head, beliefs so widespread, so commonly held, that it never occurs to you to question them.

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  Inspirational, Happiness, Happy

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “The Way to Love: Meditations for Life”, p.4, Image

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• All that you give to others you are giving to yourself.

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  Giving, Awareness, Self Awareness

  Anthony De Mello (1999). “Anthony De Mello: Writings”

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• Negative feelings are in you, not in reality. Stop trying to change reality. That's crazy! Stop trying to change the other person. We spend all our time and energy trying to change external circumstances, trying to change our spouses, our bosses, our friends, our enemies, and everybody else. We don't have to change anything. Negative feelings are in you.

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  Crazy, Reality, Boss

  Anthony De Mello (2011). “Awareness: Conversations with the Masters”, p.79, Image

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• When you get rid of your fear of failure, your tensions about succeeding... you can be yourself. Relaxed. You'll no longer be driving with your brakes on.

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  Being Yourself, Fear, Failure

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• Say goodbye to golden yesterdays: or your heart will never learn to love the present.

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  Goodbye, Heart, Yesterday

  Anthony De Mello (2013). “Wellsprings: A Book of Spiritual Exercises”, p.227, Image

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  Wisdom tends to grow in proportion to one's awareness of one's ignorance.

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  Ignorance, Spirituality, Awareness

  Anthony De Mello (2012). “One Minute Wisdom”, p.97, Image

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• Extend
  your arms
  in welcome
  to the future.
  The best
  is yet to come!

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  Best Is Yet To Come, Arms, Welcome

  Anthony De Mello (2013). “Wellsprings: A Book of Spiritual Exercises”, p.239, Image

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