Helen Fisher Quotes

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• Keep an open heart. We are wired to find love.

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  Heart, Finding Love, Open Heart

  "Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Life". www.oprah.com. February 2009.

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• People live for love. They kill for love. They die for love. They have songs, poems, novels, sculptures, paintings, myths, legends. It's one of the most powerful brain systems on Earth for both great joy and great sorrow.

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  Valentines Day, Song, Motivation

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• Romantic love is an obsession. It possesses you. You lose your sense of self. You can’t stop thinking about another human being.

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  Motivation, Inspiration, Romantic Love

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• There's all kinds of reasons that you fall in love with one person rather than another: Timing is important. Proximity is important. Mystery is important. You fall in love with somebody who's somewhat mysterious, in part because mystery elevates dopamine in the brain, probably pushes you over that threshold to fall in love.

  Helen Fisher

  Falling In Love, Brain, Important

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• Good-looking people are always looking for other good-looking people.

  Helen Fisher

  People, Looking Good

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• Romantic love is an addiction: a perfectly wonderful addiction when it's going well, and a perfectly horrible addiction when it's going poorly.

  Helen Fisher

  Motivation, Inspiration, Romantic Love

  "The brain in love". TED Talk, www.ted.com. February 2008.

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• Saliva has testosterone and estrogen. When you kiss, you're having a chemical experience.

  Helen Fisher

  Kissing, Chemicals, Saliva

  "Falling in love: It's all about brain chemistry". Interview with Michelle Brence, www.oregonlive.com. February 17, 2009.

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• You fall in love with somebody who fits within what I call your 'love map,' an unconscious list of traits that you build in childhood as you grow up. And I also think that you gravitate to certain people, actually, with somewhat complementary brain systems.

  Helen Fisher

  Falling In Love, Growing Up, Thinking

  "Sharing The Good Life". Prezi Inc., prezi.com. November 15, 2013.

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• Sometimes we fall in love with somebody who will probably never love us, for reasons having nothing to do with us but with their own mindset, their chemistry.

  Helen Fisher

  Falling In Love, Chemistry, Sometimes

  "The Laws Of Attraction". Interview with Joseph Hooper, www.elle.com. January 13, 2009.

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• At first I assumed hate was the opposite of love. But it isn't. The opposite of love is indifference.

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  Hate, Love Is, Opposites

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• Romantic love is not an emotion. ... It's a drive. It comes from the motor of the mind, the wanting part of the mind, the craving part of the mind.

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  Romantic Love, Love Is, Brain

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• A world without love is a deadly place.

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  Love, Valentines Day, World

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• We're apt to fall in love with those who are mysterious and challenging to us.

  Helen Fisher

  Falling In Love, Fall, Challenges

  "The mysteries of love" by Sara Reistad-Long, www.realsimple.com.

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• Barriers tend to intensify romance. It's called the 'Romeo and Juliet effect.' I call it 'frustration attraction.'

  Helen Fisher

  Frustration, Romance, Juliet

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• Experiences shape the brain, but the brain shapes the way we view experiences, too.

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  Views, Brain, Shapes

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• Nobody gets out of love alive. You turn into a menace or a pest when you've been rejected.

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  Pests, Alive, Menace

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• The main characteristics of romantic love are craving: an intense craving to be with a particular person, not just sexually, but emotionally.

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  Motivation, Inspiration, Romantic Love

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• There's magic to love... Millions of years ago we evolved three basic drives: the sex love, romantic love, and attachment to a long-term partner. These circuits are deeply embedded in the human brian. They're going to survive as long as our species survive on what Shakespeare called, this "mortal coil."

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  Sex, Romantic Love, Attachment

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• Romantic love is one of the most addictive substances on Earth.

  Helen Fisher

  Romantic Love, Love Is, Substance

  "What if I never get over him (or her) - you asked Google, here's the answer" by Annalisa Barbieri, www.theguardian.com. November 4, 2015.

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• Psychologists maintain that the dizzy feeling of intense romantic love lasts only about 18 months to-at best-three years

  Helen Fisher

  Romantic Love, Years, Romance

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• There were real reasons that you were attracted to somebody originally. The brain doesn't pick willy-nilly. Unless you part ways hating each other for some reason, that mechanism could get triggered again. You can literally fall in love again.

  Helen Fisher

  Falling In Love, Hate, Real

  "This divorce just isn't working out: Will you (re)marry me?" by Laura T. CoffeyLaura, www.today.com. October 14, 2016.

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• Why do we feel jealousy? Therapists often regard the demon as a scar of childhood trauma or a symptom of a psychological problem. And it's true that people who feel inadequate, insecure, or overly dependent tend to be more jealous than others.

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  Jealous, Insecure, People

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• What our grandmothers told us about playing hard to get is true. The whole point of the game is to impress and capture. It's not about honesty. Many men and women, when they're playing the courtship game, deceive so they can win. Novelty, excitement and danger drive up dopamine in the brain. And both sexes brag.

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  Sex, Honesty, Lying

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• In general, men are wired to notice obvious signs that convey interest in mating - a warm smile, for example - and ignore other subtleties, like if your lipstick is faded.

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  Men, Example, Mating

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• Mothers really were not built to raise babies not only by themselves, but with only a partner. For millions of years, a woman had much more than just her husband to help rear her young... This whole idea of 'it takes a village to raise a child' is exactly how we're supposed to live.

  Helen Fisher

  Mother, Baby, Children

  "Motherhood 2.0: It takes an (online) village" by Adrienne Mand Lewin, www.today.com. October 12, 2009.

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