Barbara Deming Quotes - Page 2

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• Think first of the action that is right to take, think later about coping with one's fears.

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  Fear, Thinking, Firsts

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• It is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.

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  Real, Able, Gains

  Barbara Deming (1984). “We Are All Part of One Another: A Barbara Deming Reader”

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• We cannot live without our lives

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  Our Lives

  Barbara Deming (1985). “Prisons that Could Not Hold”, p.12, University of Georgia Press

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• Of course it can be said of jails, too, that they try - by punishing the troublesome - to deter others. No doubt, in certain instances this deterrence actually works. But generally speaking it fails conspicuously.

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  Jail, Doubt, Trying

  Barbara Deming (1974). “We cannot live without our lives”

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• After the revolution, let us hope, prisons simply would not exist - if by prisons we mean places that could be experienced by the men and women in them at all as every place that goes by that name now is bound to be experienced.

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  Mean, Men, Names

  Barbara Deming (1974). “We cannot live without our lives”

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• Nonviolent tactics can move into action on our behalf men not naturally inclined to act for us.

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  Moving, Men, Tactics

  Barbara Deming (1984). “We Are All Part of One Another: A Barbara Deming Reader”

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• People who attack others need rationalizations for doing so. We undermine those rationalizations.

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  People, Needs

  Barbara Deming (1974). “We cannot live without our lives”

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• there is clearly a kind of anger that is healthy. It is the concentration of one's whole being in the determination: this must change.

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  Determination, Anger, Healthy

  Barbara Deming (1984). “We Are All Part of One Another: A Barbara Deming Reader”

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• All prisons that have existed in our society to date put people away as no human being should ever be put away.

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  People, Our Society, Prison

  Barbara Deming (1974). “We cannot live without our lives”

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• After the revolution, it might very well remain necessary to place people where they could not do harm to others. But the one under restraint should be cut off from the rest of society as little as possible.

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  Cutting, People, Littles

  Barbara Deming (1974). “We cannot live without our lives”

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• The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.

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  Mean, Neighbor, Should

  Barbara Deming (1974). “We cannot live without our lives”

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• There should be no censorship of mail.

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  Mail, Censorship, Should

  Barbara Deming (1974). “We cannot live without our lives”

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• A great many of us must move from words to acts - from words of dissent to acts of disobedience.

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  Moving, Great Men, Obedience

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• Nonviolent action does not have to get others to be nice. It can in effect force them to consult their consciences.

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  Nice, Doe, Action

  Barbara Deming (1984). “We Are All Part of One Another: A Barbara Deming Reader”

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• We believe, in fact, that the one act of respect has little force unless matched by the other - in balance with it... The acting out of that dual respect I would name as precisely the source of our power.

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  Believe, Names, Balance

  Barbara Deming (1974). “We cannot live without our lives”

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• Something seems wrong to most people engaged in struggle when they see more people hurt on their own side than on the other side. They are used to reading this as an indication of defeat, and a complete mental readjustment is required of them. Within the new terms of struggle, victory has nothing to do with their being able to give more punishment than they take (quite the reverse); victory has nothing to do with their being able to punish the other at all; it has to do simply with being able, finally, to make the other move... Vengeance is not the point; change is.

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  Hurt, Struggle, Moving

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