Mary Catherine Bateson Quotes

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• We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Graduation, Educational, Memorable

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2004). “Willing to Learn: Passages of Personal Discovery”

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• The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Inspirational, Inspiring, Thinking

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• As you get up in the morning, as you make decisions, as you spend money, make friends, make commitments, you are creating a piece of art called your life.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Life, Art, Morning

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2004). “Willing to Learn: Passages of Personal Discovery”

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• What would it be like to have not only color vision but culture vision, the ability to see the multiple worlds of others.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Color, Vision, Culture

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• Wherever a story comes from, whether it is a familiar myth or a private memory, the retelling exemplifies the making of a connection from one pattern to another: a potential translation in which narrative becomes parable and the once upon a time comes to stand for some renascent truth. This approach applies to all the incidents of everyday life: the phrase in the newspaper, the endearing or infuriating game of a toddler, the misunderstanding at the office. Our species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Memories, Thinking, Games

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• Insight, I believe, refers to the depth of understanding that comes by setting experiences, yours and mine, familiar and exotic, new and old, side by side, learning by letting them speak to one another.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Believe, Diversity, Understanding

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• Human beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Sacred, Natural, Conventions

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2001). “Composing a Life”, p.57, Grove Press

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• Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Teacher, Teaching, Lessons

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• In many ways, constancy is an illusion. After all, our ancestors were immigrants, many of them moving on every few years; today we are migrants in time. Unless teachers can hold up a model of lifelong learning and adaptation, graduates are likely to find themselves trapped into obsolescence as the world changes around them. Of any stopping place in life, it is good to ask whether it will be a good place from which to go on as well as a good place to remain.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Life, Teacher, Moving

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2001). “Composing a Life”, p.14, Grove Press

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• Solutions to problems often depend upon how they're defined.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Problem, Defined, Depends

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• Improvisation and new learning are not private processes; they are shared with others at every age. We are called to join in a dance whose steps must be learned along the way, so it is important to attend and respond. Even in uncertainty, we are responsible for our steps.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Important, Age, Way

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• Sharing is sometimes
  more demanding than giving.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Peace, Memorable, Knowledge

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2007). “Composing a Life”, p.111, Grove/Atlantic, Inc.

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• The timing of death, like the ending of a story, gives a changed meaning to what preceded it.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Change, Death, Giving

  Mary Catherine Bateson (1984). “With a Daughter's Eye: A Memoir of Margaret Mead and Gregory Bateson”, William Morrow & Company

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• ... as we age we have not only to readdress earlier developmental crises but also somehow to find the way to three affirmations that may seem to conflict. ... We have to affirm our own life. We have to affirm our own death. And we have to affirm love, both given and received.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Love, Age, Three

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• When any relationship is characterized by difference, particularly a disparity in power, there remains a tendency to model it on the parent-child-relationship. Even protectiveness and benevolence toward the poor, toward minorities, and especially toward women have involved equating them with children.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Peace, Children, Differences

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• There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can't think without metaphors.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Thinking, Toxic, Metaphor

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• The past empowers the present, and the sweeping footsteps leading to this present mark the pathways to the future.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Past, Empowering, Pathways

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• When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Past, Parent, Realization

  Mary Catherine Bateson (1985). “With a Daughter's Eye: A Memoir of Margaret Mead and Gregory Bateson”, Pocket Books

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• Often continuity is visible only in retrospect.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Perspective, Retrospect, Continuity

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2001). “Composing a Life”, p.223, Grove Press

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• The critical question about regret is whether experience led to growth and new learning. Some people seem to keep on making the same mistakes, while others at least make new ones. Regret and remorse can be either paralyzing or inspiring. [p. 199]

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Regret, Mistake, People

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• Goals too clearly defined can become blinkers.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Goal, Blinkers, Goals And Objectives

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2001). “Composing a Life”, p.6, Grove Press

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• Fluidity and discontinuity are central to the reality in which we live.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Reality, Fluidity, Discontinuity

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2001). “Composing a Life”, p.13, Grove Press

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• ...a disgruntled reflection on my own life as a sort of desperate improvisation in which I was constantly trying to make something coherent from conflicting elements to fit rapidly changing settings.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Reflection, Trying, Elements

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2001). “Composing a Life”, p.3, Grove Press

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• A glad welcome to this affirmation by a group of psychologists that the self does not stop at the skin nor even with the circle of human relationships but is interwoven with the lives of trees and animals and soil; that caring for the deepest needs of persons and caring for our threatened planet are not in conflict.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Caring, Animal, Self

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• Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.

  Mary Catherine Bateson

  Peace, History, Tradition

  Mary Catherine Bateson (2001). “Composing a Life”, p.71, Grove Press

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