Irvin D. Yalom Quotes

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• The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.

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  May, Helping, Accepted

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• Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.

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  Persons

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• If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.

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  Pain, Growth, Want

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• Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other. We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.

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  Growth, Wish, Needs

  Irvin D. Yalom (2011). “The Gift Of Therapy (Revised And Updated Edition): An open letter to a new generation of therapists and their patients”, p.179, Hachette UK

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• Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don't leave any unlived life behind.

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  Live Your Life, Live Your Life To The Fullest, Behinds

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• If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.

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  Tragedy, Looks, Height

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• To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.

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  Mean, Growth, Love Means

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• Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)

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  Heal, Healer, Wounded

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• Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That's when I will be truly dead - when I exist in no one's memory. I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people. When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?

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  Memories, Years, People

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• I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion. Some piece of ourselves, not necessarily our consciousness, but some piece of ourselves gets passed on and on and on.

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  Thinking, Comfort, Pieces

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• Living safely is dangerous.

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  Dangerous

  "Fictional character: Friedrich Nietzsche". "When Nietzsche Wept", www.imdb.com. 2007.

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• Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love. Rather, love is a way of being, a "giving to," not a 'falling for"; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.

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  Falling In Love, Passion, Love Is

  Irvin D. Yalom (2012). “Love's Executioner: And Other Tales of Psychotherapy”, p.20, Basic Books

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• Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life. This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.

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  Self, Forever, Treasure

  Irvin D. Yalom (2010). “Staring at the Sun: Overcoming the Terror of Death”, p.14, John Wiley & Sons

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• When people don't have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.

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  People, Curiosity

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• It's not easy to live every moment wholly aware of death. It's like trying to stare the sun in the face: you can stand only so much of it. Because we cannot live frozen in fear, we generate methods to soften death's terror. We project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.

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  Death, Children, Trying

  Irvin D. Yalom (2010). “Staring at the Sun: Overcoming the Terror of Death”, p.17, John Wiley & Sons

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• One thing I feel clear about is that it's important not to let your life live you. Otherwise, you end up at forty feeling you haven't really lived. What have I learned? Perhaps to live now, so that at fifty I won't look back upon my forties with regret.

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  Regret, Feelings, Important

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• If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.

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  Way, Admire, Behave

  Irvin D. Yalom (1980). “Existential Psychotherapy”, Basic Books (AZ)

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• Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish. Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I'm still learning.

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  Self, Medicine, Understanding

  Irvin D. Yalom (2012). “The Spinoza Problem: A Novel”, p.167, Basic Books

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• Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you'll always find despair.

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  Self, Despair, Looks

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• Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.

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  Two, Darkness, Sparks

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• ... sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.

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  Giving Up, Past, Giving

  Irvin D. Yalom (2010). “Staring at the Sun: Overcoming the Terror of Death”, p.92, John Wiley & Sons

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• One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.

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  Order, Oneself

  Irvin D. Yalom (1980). “Existential Psychotherapy”, Basic Books (AZ)

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• The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.

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  Men, Choices, Spirit

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• What? 'Borderline patients play games'? That what you said? Ernest, you'll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That's exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis. There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can't treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)

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  Real, Thinking, Games

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• Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.

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  Thinking, Life Is, Miserable

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