It bothers me when I can't, for example, remember a name. I don't know if it's pre-senility or whether there are too many names packed in our brains.
I've had an enduring appreciation of psychology.
Indeed, at times it's best to shut up.
My wife and daughter have accused me of being too silent at breakfast but I don't want to talk when I don't have much to say.
For most of my life, I have wanted broad impact but now, at 72, I'm not so sure that's always my first priority.
Domesticity has been a challenge for me but painful as it's been, engaging with family has been a school for reducing solipsism and increasing my understanding of people's different reactions to stress.
If someone in my family is getting emotionally bent out of shape, I've had to learn to adapt.
I really do like to write and when I'm not, I think, "Okay, I'll be a good citizen now" but fact is, that's secondary.
I'm fortunate in being able to find great satisfaction in my work.
My other work, teaching, also is satisfying because I can be with people but in controlled circumstances, which aren't as likely to yield the pain of dealing with family.
Hedonism can be a rational response to a difficult life.
The essay is a wonderful medium. I might mention that some writers who longed to be novelists were better as essayists: Sontag, Baldwin, Vidal, Mary McCarthy, Mailer.
Contradictory strands create an essay that's richly ambivalent.
Have fun writing, because it enhances both the writer's and reader's experience.
In new work, we need to see the shadow, however faint, of previous literary effort.
Most good essays are conversations with yourself - not just your decided thoughts but your dilemmas.
You must read a lot of personal essays - you needn't reinvent the wheel.
Confession makes you a more trustworthy narrator.
The essay must be artistically rendered: You must keep the reader engaged, whether with wit, conflict, mischief, and/or yes, with honesty.
A personal essay often includes some or a lot of personal confession. That makes the reader feel less lonely in their confusion and darkness.
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