It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other's smartphone.
Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn't call.
Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others - because it's a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
Most of what makes a book 'good' is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
Life seems to be a process of replacing one anxiety with another and substituting one desire for another--which is not to say that we should never strive to overcome any of our anxieties or fulfil any of our desires, but rather to suggest that we should perhaps build into our strivings an awareness of the way our goals promise us a respite and a resolution that they cannot, by definition, deliver.
What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of disappointing others.
The largest part of what we call 'personality' is determined by how we've opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness".
Dreams reveal we never quite get 'over' anything: it's all still in there somewhere.
What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind. The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
We are sensitized by the books we read. And the more books we read, and the deeper their lessons sink into us, the more pairs of glasses we have. And those glasses enable us to see things we would have otherwise missed.
The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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