Carolyn Hax Quotes

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• Being negative is easy. There will always be a downside to everything good, a hurdle to everything desirable, a con to every pro. The real courage is in finding the good in what you have, the opportunities in every hurdle, the pros in every con.

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  Wisdom, Real, Opportunity

  "Carolyn Hax Live: Advice Columnist Tackles Your Problems". Live Discussion, www.washingtonpost.com. August 7, 2009.

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• Your job is to be you, which includes being the chief beneficiary of all things you do right, the chief victim of all you do wrong, and the one person on Earth who has to live with every choice you make. As gatekeeper to your life, you’re it.

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  Jobs, Choices, Earth

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• Minimizing exposure to miserable people is nothing short of a life strategy.

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  People, Miserable, Strategy

  "Carolyn Hax Live: With the usual apologies to wolves". Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. February 5, 2016.

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• No matter what else comes, your courage will be your companion for life.

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  Matter, No Matter What, Companion

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• And if you're a parent who thinks you're okay because your kid doesn't have a phone or iPod yet, and/or you've used all the parent controls to filter out explicit material, you're not okay. The filters are tissue paper and your kid without a phone is on a school bus or in a locker room or at a public park with phone-equipped kids every day. And they're like all kids in exploring - by whatever means available to them - exactly what their parents are treating as too embarrassing or taboo to talk about.

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  School, Mean, Kids

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• You don't want someone who can't tell the difference between having a different opinion and dismissing your opinion.

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  Differences, Different, Want

  "Carolyn Hax Live: Hootenanny of Holiday Horrors 2015". Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. December 11, 2015.

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• It's okay to forgive yourself immediately and for good.

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  Forgiving, Forgive Yourself, Okay

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• One helpful thing to keep in mind as a retort-stopper is that you won't "win," you won't change anyone's mind, you won't change any votes, you won't make the atmosphere in the room any better, YOU won't feel any better.

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  Winning, Atmosphere, Mind

  "Carolyn Hax Live: Use the china". Live chat, live.washingtonpost.com. November 20, 2015.

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• Your friends will need you, too, someday. Maybe not in the same way, maybe not in cash and shelter, but they'll need you - to listen without judging, to invite them over when they're lonely, to show up for their events, to register in whatever way matters to them that they matter to you. Be on the lookout for these opportunities to give back, and do whatever is in your power not to miss many of them.

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  Lonely, Opportunity, Giving

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• The most reliable ways to make oneself miserable are attempting to change people and not attempting to change circumstances.

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  People, Way, Miserable

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• You can't make someone agree with you, not even when you're 100 percent sure you're right.

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  Agree, Percent

  "Carolyn Hax Live: Ignorant of fry equity". The Washington Post Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. January 8, 2016.

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• Live in the moment, this moment, your moment. That is by far and without meaningful rival The Best Position to put yourself in to discover and delight in who your children turn out to be, whoever they turn out to be.

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  Meaningful, Children, Live In The Moment

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• Relationships are complicated, but happiness in a relationship isn't: It's just wanting exactly what you have. Wanting something else is dispiriting.

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  Happiness, Complicated

  "Me vs. Football". www.arcamax.com. January 28, 2013.

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• When in doubt, respond to what you witness, not what you hear secondhand.

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  Doubt, Witness, When In Doubt

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• One way to make tough decisions is to take incremental steps that don't commit you to anything yet.

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  Decision, Tough, Tough Decisions

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• You can't make people like you under the best of circumstances, and you certainly can't make them like you while you're actively badgering them on what you perceive to be their failures of conscience.

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  People, Like You, Circumstances

  "Carolyn Hax Live: Ignorant of fry equity". Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. January 08, 2016.

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• Almost no one can take on an entire future in one step, much less while reeling emotionally.

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  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• You need to make plans for your future, so plan your own future.

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  Needs, Your Future, Our Future

  "Carolyn Hax Live: "Plan your own future"". live.washingtonpost.com. July 22, 2016.

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• Bodies and minds need breaks or the work suffers, this has been proven and reproven to the point where we don't even need to post links to support it.

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  Support, Mind, Suffering

  "Carolyn Hax Live: With the usual apologies to wolves". Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. February 5, 2016.

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• The only answer that has any chance against against the information saturation kids face these days is to talk openly with kids, early enough and often enough and unflinchingly enough that you set the precedent of being the safe place they can go to ask their difficult questions. It has to happen starting when they're 2 or 3, and they ask you where babies come from and instead of freaking out and deflecting, you give facts commensurate with their ability to understand.

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  Baby, Kids, Giving

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• It's hard to send your baby off on a plane without you, though that's less reasonable, because sending him off in a car is statistically a bigger risk.

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  Baby, Car, Risk

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• Instead of talking at each other about the non-business-related contact, talk to each other about your concerns about marriage. Listen a lot, too.

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  Talking, Concern, Contact

  Source: live.washingtonpost.com

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• Apparently you have ample proof from experience that you're not going to stop world evil by debating your in-laws into submission, so it's okay to choose not to try.

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  Law, Evil, Trying

  "Carolyn Hax Live: Use the china (Nov. 20)". The Washington Post Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. November 20, 2015.

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• Attractions are things we all should be good at saying no to, because our Department of Attraction is arguably the least reliable and productive office in our entire brain.

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  Office, Brain, Saying No

  "Carolyn Hax Live: Use the china". Live chat, live.washingtonpost.com. November 20, 2015.

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• There's nothing wrong with being happy somewhere, even if it's the little pond you grew up in, as long as you are in fact comfortable vs. bored.

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  Long, Bored, Ponds

  "Carolyn Hax Live: Ignorant of fry equity". The Washington Post Live Chat, live.washingtonpost.com. January 8, 2016.

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