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• Vanity and narcissism — the compulsive need to be admired and praised — undermine one's courage, for one then fights on someone else's conviction rather than one's own.

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  Fighting, Vanity, Needs

  Rollo May (2009). “Man's Search for Himself”, p.177, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. ... One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him. This is what our society needs - not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.

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  Running, Exercise, Men

  "Man's Search for Himself" by Rollo May, (p. 56), 1953.

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• One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.

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  Blessing, Anxiety, Age

  Rollo May (2009). “Man's Search for Himself”, p.7, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Courage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.

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  Becoming

  Rollo May (1994). “The Courage to Create”, p.13, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Creativity is the process of bringing something new into being. Creativity requires passion and commitment. It brings to our awareness what was previously hidden and points to new life. The experience is one of heightened consciousness: ecstasy.

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  Passion, Creativity, Commitment

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• The most effective way to ensure the value of the future is to confront the present courageously and constructively.

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  Way, Values

  Rollo May (2009). “Man's Search for Himself”, p.203, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Joy is the zest that you get out of using your talents, your understanding, the totality of your being, for great aims...That's the kind of feeling that goes with creativity. That's why I say the courage to create. Creation does not come out of simply what you're born with. That must be united with your courage, both of which cause anxiety, but also great joy.

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  Courage, Creativity, Using Your Talents

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• Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.

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  Violence, Arise, Powerlessness

  Rollo May (1998). “Power and Innocence: A Search for the Sources of Violence”, p.23, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Care is a state in which something does matter; care is the opposite of apathy. Care is the necessary source of eros, the source of human tenderness.

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  Care, Matter, Doe

  "Love & Will".

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• Power is required for communication. To stand before an indifferent or hostile group and have one's say, or to speak honestly to a friend truths that go deep and hurt these require self-affirmation, self-assertion, and even at times aggression. ... My experience in psychotherapy convinces me that the act which requires the most courage is the simple communication, unpropelled by rage or anger, of one's deepest thoughts to another.

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  Hurt, Communication, Simple

  Rollo May (1998). “Power and Innocence: A Search for the Sources of Violence”, p.245, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.

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  Friendship, Depression, Hate

  Rollo May (1969). “Love and will”

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• Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.

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  Self Esteem, Society, Trying

  Rollo May (1998). “Power and Innocence: A Search for the Sources of Violence”, p.23, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.

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  Responsibility, Community, Anxiety

  Rollo May (2015). “The Meaning of Anxiety”, p.132, W. W. Norton & Company

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• In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person's development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.

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  Block, Destiny, Development

  Rollo May (2009). “Man's Search for Himself”, p.174, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.

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  Risk, Intimacy, Self Actualization

  Rollo May (1994). “The Courage to Create”, p.17, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.

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  Courage, Reality, Like Love

  Rollo May (1994). “The Courage to Create”, p.13, W. W. Norton & Company

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• It is highly significant and indeed almost a rule, that moral courage has its source in such identification through one's own sensitivity with suffering of one's fellow human beings." (p. 16-17)

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  Suffering, Moral, Significant

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• Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?

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  Character, Responsibility, Hands

  Rollo May (1999). “Freedom and Destiny”, p.100, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Indeed, compulsive and rigid moralism arises in given persons precisely as the result of a lack of sense of being. Rigid moralism is a compensatory mechanism by which the individual persuades himself to take over the external sanctions because he has no fundamental assurance that his own choices have any sanction of their own

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  Choices, Fundamentals, Existentialism

  Rollo May (1994). “Existence”, p.45, Jason Aronson

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• Apathy adds up, in the long run, to cowardice.

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  Running, Long, Apathy

  Rollo May (1994). “The Courage to Create”, p.13, W. W. Norton & Company

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• We must always base our commitment in the center of our own being, or else no commitment will be ultimately authentic.

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  Inspirational, Commitment, Enviromental

  Rollo May (1994). “The Courage to Create”, p.13, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Humor is the healthy way of feeling "distance" between one's self and the problem, a way of standing off and looking at one's problem with perspective.

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  Distance, Self, Perspective

  Rollo May (2009). “Man's Search for Himself”, p.40, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Whatever sphere we may be in, there is a profound joy in the realization that we are helping to form the structure of the new world. This is creative courage, however minor or fortuitous our creations may be.

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  Courage, Creativity, Profound

  Rollo May (1994). “The Courage to Create”, p.35, W. W. Norton & Company

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• Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.

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  Confused, Love Is, Independence

  Rollo May Ph.D. (1953). “Man's Search for Himself”

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• There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.

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  Change, Courage To Change

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